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Men In Love

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Those fantasies which did not have any outright turnoffs were much too short for me to work up much of a hot and bother (something Nancy explains is normal since men don't take nearly as long to get there, or stay there as long one they've arrived). If you are a reader that is easily put off by vivid descriptions of sexual acts and if issues like Oedipus complex unsettle you, then I would not advise it. It sounds as though she is making excuses for why some of the men think the way they do and I'm not sure if there has to be an answer to everything. no signs of cover wear, clean glossy, pages clean, bright and unmarked, spine tightListing Includes Books Image.

Men in Love” is based on more than 3,000 responses (asked by Nancy Friday) with men discussing their sexual fantasies, desires and passions. However, there were some interesting psychological insights mixed in among the BS, enough to have made it worth reading. A notice in her last book garnered about three thousand responses from American men, of which about two hundred are included in this volume. Men in Love goes beyond the cliché of woman seen as either madonna or whore to reveal the conflict of love and rage at the centre of men's emotions. As we grow older, become socialized, and develop identity, the satisfactions we pursue become more specific.Wanting to see, but afraid to look, men invent voyeuristic fantasies to heal a paradox, the conflict in themselves. Even these fantasies, in a twisted way, were usually still focused on the woman's consent and pleasure. Consequently, in the long pre-sexual years she has no chance to develop the association between a naked man and the erotic. Anyhow, the book is ok if you're lonely on a weekend and want to pretend you're doing something intellectual while keeping yourself company.

By using the Web site, you confirm that you have read, understood, and agreed to be bound by the Terms and Conditions. I wish I could remember who said this, but this book also affirms one of the first things I read when I discovered radical feminism, which was "We will never fuck our way out of the patriarchy. I guess that's probably the result of the Internet, 2 Girls 1 Cup makes everything before look tame. Another fascinating aspect of fetishistic thinking is the extraordinary amount of detail connected to the object.Forever after men sense the forbidding shadow of the primitive, preoedipal mother behind every woman to whom they are attracted. Having this unconsciously remembered evidence of mother’s warmth and reassurance with him, he is encouraged to go forward into sexual pleasures. Sexually "liberated" women are not taking their power away from men and back into their own hands; they are giving men exactly what they most want. Quite the opposite of feeling there was anything angry or resentful towards women in (almost all of) these fantasies, it was surprising and wonderful to me to see that, at least in this sampling, men's sexual fantasies are very very focused on women's enthusiastic consent and on women deriving maximum pleasure from sex, literally as much pleasure as the man can imagine.

and forget her, their friendship and feelings of masculinity somehow reinforced at the woman’s expense. If you happen to do the same just remember your partner is with you and not out there acting out those fantasies. While the book shows that sexual longing and desire cross a large spectrum of identities, that doesn't mean people stop being what their identity is.I go back to this book time and time again, not to turn me on, but to give me a deeper understanding of male sexuality. To calculate the overall star rating and percentage breakdown by star, we don’t use a simple average. Nancy Friday, best-selling author of feminist and erotic literature, psychoanalyst and socio-sexual historian, has been the leading witer on women’s and men’s sexual fantasies since the publication of her first best-selling erotic book, My Secret Garden .

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